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Welcome to my site! I dish out a daily miscellany of events, ethnic cool and how I try and live my life to the max. 03/28/09 It was a blur that day. But I did manage to squeeze a few moments in to actually soak up the experience. |
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| vancitycanuck | The importance of doing stuff. | 0 | Apr 14 2009, 12:57 AM EDT by vancitycanuck | ||
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Whether it's relationships, media, volunteer work, side projects, hobbies, fitness, or consumerism, it's critical that your mind and body regularly stays active. To me, that's the meaning of life. To quote the book "Tuesdays with Morrie" by Mitch Albom, in which Morrie Schwartz states:
"So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they're busy doing things they think are important. This is because they're chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning." (p.43) The problem with those who apparently live a meaningless life is that they are oblivious to evaluating their own actions. Sure, they may take a brief moment to reflect negatively on the things they are doing (e.g. they know they shouldn't be smoking, they think their job sucks, etc.), but how long does that resonate with them to motivate them to change? Often not enough. Why complain and whine endlessly? Why not do stuff? There are many things that I've done in my life that I'm not necessarily proud of, and I'd be silly to think that there isn't more less-than-impressive accomplishments in store for me. But as I begin to knock on 30's door, my past and present life is slowly motivating me to make my life more enriching. Some of the buzz words coming to mind are (in no particular order): achievement, reflection, appreciation, gratitude, love, compassion, sharing, selflessness, maturity, compromise, respect, active listening, opportunities... I'd be naive to think that wealth and prosperity aren't things that I wish to continue to have growing in my life. Grind hard in order to live harder. But these things will come when I keep doing stuff. |
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| vancitycanuck | 04/11/09 - What I vow to do in this next phase of life. | 0 | Apr 12 2009, 12:11 AM EDT by vancitycanuck | ||
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Thread started: Apr 12 2009, 12:11 AM EDT
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In addition to loving my wife unconditionally, I've made a personal commitment to re-connect with my friends and family. Sure, there's my nucleus that I'm in touch with on a regular basis, which I will continue to do. It's those whom I was once close to, hung out with, drank with, smoked with, worked with, went to school with, didn't get invited to the wedding (with?), lost touch with, still in my phonebook (with?), etc.
I'm not usually the one to wait for someone else to initiate, therefore it's not an issue for me that these very people that I've not communicated with have considered getting back in touch with me. Furthermore, in my past two years of working in an environment that consisted mainly of networking and socializing, it's really made me more aware of the importance of continually surrounding myself with people - you just never know when you might need them. Even to share ideas, war-stories, trials, tribulations - communicating can never hinder, you will always learn something. If you knew me a few years back, when social networking was becoming all the rage, you would know that I was a serious hypocrite about Facebook and Friendster. When I first heard about these sites, I downright REFUSED to participate. That lasted until I started working for the Burnaby Board of Trade. Through encounters with avid users of these and other tools, and them sharing with me the benefits they saw for their own lives and businesses, that's when I re-explored the sites - and I was hooked. But it was only in these encounters with people, was I able to see the other side of the coin. Had I not met them, who knows what direction my life would be headed? Lifelong learning (academic is optional) should be paramount to everyone's lives. The more people you meet in your life, the more you learn - how hard is that? Oh, and it's fun too! |
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| vancitycanuck | 04/11/09 - So, what's it feel like to be married? | 0 | Apr 11 2009, 11:52 PM EDT by vancitycanuck | ||
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Thread started: Apr 11 2009, 11:52 PM EDT
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For one reason or another, this question gets asked all the time. In short, it feels the same as it was, prior to the big day. Sub-consciously, there's a sense of accomplishment; the thought that one phase of my life is complete and the next one begins.
I'm sure like alot of newlyweds in the first few weeks/months after they are hitched, we often pinch ourselves and wonder what we've done. "I can't believe we're married", or "Wow, we finally did it" seem to be the usual banter between Gina and I. It's really a great feeling. As a person who tends to think introspectively on a regular basis, the mere gesture of glancing down at my wedding ring automatically brings me a sense of happiness and content. Quite therapeutic actually. There's definitely alot of things still needed to be done to kickstart this "next" phase, but the liftoff has taken place. The feeling is awesome. |
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